Dating isn’t just about what happens in your head—it’s also what happens in your body. If you’ve ever felt your chest tighten before a hard conversation, or your stomach drop when you sense disconnection, you already know that the body keeps the score.

Many women don’t realize that anxiety, self-abandonment, and fear of rejection live in the body. You can understand an issue logically but still feel paralyzed, sick, shut down or constricted in the moment. That’s because your body hasn’t learned it’s safe to respond differently.

This is why I teach somatic practices—awareness and tools that help you calm your nervous system, release old tension, and feel grounded in your body. When your body feels safe, your heart can stay open. You can speak your truth without shutting down, and you can show up authentically without fear of rejection.

These embodied practices are what allow you to feel calm and secure—not just think it. And that makes all the difference in how you show up in dating, and eventually, in marriage.

Emotional intelligence is about becoming fluent in your own inner world. It’s the ability to notice, name, and navigate your emotions instead of being ruled by them.

So many women tell me, “I don’t trust myself in dating. I can’t tell if it’s intuition or fear. I don’t know when to stay or when to walk away.” This confusion usually comes from a lack of emotional awareness and regulation.

In It’s Going To Happen, I’ll teach you how to listen to your emotions as signals—without letting them drive you into spirals. You’ll learn how to set boundaries without guilt, how to communicate your needs with clarity, and how to stay connected to yourself even when you’re attracted to someone.

Developing EQ gives you confidence. It helps you show up as the woman you truly are—authentic, discerning, and secure. And these are the exact qualities that make real, lasting connection possible.

So much of what keeps us stuck in dating isn’t conscious. It lives beneath the surface, in the beliefs we absorbed as children, the experiences that shaped us, and the unspoken fears that run in the background. These live in the part of the mind we are NOT aware of called the subconscious.

When you wonder, Why do I keep attracting the same kind of men? Why do I lose myself in relationships? Why do I feel so anxious every time I get close to someone?—the answers often lie in your subconscious patterns.

In this course, I help you bring those hidden stories to light. Together, we’ll uncover the quiet but powerful beliefs that whisper things like, “I’m too much,” or “I’m not enough,” or “Love never works out for me.” Once you see them clearly, you’ll finally have the power to change them.

So much of dating advice doesn't work because it doesn't address this level. We go beyond surface-level advice into the root causes of your experiences. Because when you shift the root, everything else begins to change.

At the deepest level, dating isn’t just about finding the right person. It’s also about trusting God.

When we’re disconnected from God, we often date from a place of fear—fear of missing out, fear of being alone, fear of not being chosen. But when we bring God into the process, everything shifts. We stop grasping. We start trusting. We let ourselves be guided.

In this course, I help you strengthen your connection with God, so you can align your decisions with something bigger than yourself. This doesn’t mean sitting back and waiting—it means dating with faith, with calm, with clarity. It means making choices from a place of integrity instead of panic.

Spiritual intelligence is what gives dating meaning. It reminds you that you are not alone in this process, that your worth is infinite, and that love is not only possible—it’s part of your Divine destiny.